SEX AND SUCCESS

Recently, I just finished reading the "Awaken The Giant Within" by Anthony Robbins. It is really a good self-help book which really inspired me to work harder to achieve my life goal. Following by that, i started to read the "Think And Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill.

In the introduction chapter, an interesting paragrahps caught my attention. It is about sex and succcess of man. To all the male out there, please read this and think about it....

Hill noticed that younger men dissipate much of their great energy in sex itself and the pursuit of it, when the same energy, redirected, could go into great accomplishment.

His research showed that most people do not reach their peak of achievement until at least 40 or 50 when they have discovered, often by accident that their creativity and output increases when they have had to pour their normal sexual energy into their work.

Though Hill was careful not to say ‘don’t have sex’, particularly if in a loving relationship, his point was that we should aim to be the beneficiary of our sex drive, ‘not a victim of it’.

Actually, I really feel happy and excited that I came to discover this "theory" not long time ago. At the same time, It is nice to know that I have the same thinking with Sir Napoleon Hill.

The Key of Hapiness In Life...

Have you watch the Night At The Museum 2 ? I did watched this movie recently and got a clear message about the key of hapiness in life beside enjoyed this comedy show. The main message that i got and learned from this movie is that ... THE KEY TO HAPPINESS IS DOING WHAT YOU LOVE TO DO WITH THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE MOST.

I believe that everybody have their own key to open the door into the life's happiness. For me, i always agreed that passion and love for what you are doing is the key of hapiness in life. Besides that, spending my time with my loved one, family and friends is just the elevated highway toward happiness in life.

Please allow me to share a small paragraph of meaningful words from Awaken The Giant Within by Anthony Robbin....

"The only way for us to have long-term happiness is to live by our highest ideals, to consistently act in accordance with what we believe our life is truly about. But we can't do this if we don't clearly know what our values are. This is the biggest tragedy in most people's lives. Many people know what they want to have, but have no idea of who they want to be. Getting "things" simply will not fulfill you. Only living and doing what you believe is "the right thing" will give you that sense of inner strength that we all deserve".

It is always my priorities to do whatever that i love to do in order to enjoy each moment in my life. How about you? Are you on your way to happiness in life?

DREAM BIG, DARE TO DREAM

All of us, regardless of your race, religions, what languages you speak, wherever you living, had been given permission to dream big dreams.

One of my life's philosophy is always dare to dream, acquires the knowledge and skills and put all the efforts and working hard towards your dream. Believe me, you will lead a happy and live your life to the fullest :)

About myself, as an structural engineer, always dream to be involved in the design and building of the highest and tallest building in the world.. at least as tall as our beloved KLCC. Back to my school time, i may not believe i will achieve my dream to become an engineer. But, i worked hard toward my dream and finally i succeed to join the rank of the professional as an engineer. Now, the tallest tower, longest bridges, biggest structure are always in my dream..... How about your dream?

"Give yourself permission to dream. Fuel your kids' dreams, too. Once in a while, that might even mean letting them stay up past their bedtimes".

Randy Pauch (Author of The Last Lecture)

Actions Is The Best Way of Learning....

It have been two months time since my last entry and finally i get back to share something here. Recently, i did invest a lot of time to read a few interesting and informative books related to financial and business knowledge. It really opened up my mind and change my thinking and mindset. Until now, i think it is time for me to take action... because the best way of learning is by taking action, which is doing the real thing and simulating the real experience. We only can go ahead toward any goals if determined to take action after acquiring the required knowledge and information by reading, consultation by others, mentoring or any others method.

According to a study by Arizona State University (2005) which introduced the Cone of Learning and it emphasized that after two weeks, we tend to remember :
a) 90% of what we say and do
b) 70% of what we say
c) 50% of what we hear and see
d) 30% of what we see
e) 20% of what we hear
f) 10% of what we read

So, it is time to get started to act upon your plan.. whether your business plan, study plan, travelling plan and so on. How about me? It is my Goal Achievement Plan planned since a long time ago :)

Happy New Year !!!

Today is the first day of the year of 2009 or can be a new starting line for anything u wish or want to do. I just want to take the opportunity to wish all my friends a healthy, peaceful and joyful moment ahead.

Look back and review what have been done by you, learn from all the experiences in 2008 and finally it is time to set the goal and planning for the right strategies toward success.

Most importantly, act upon your plan is the key of success. Happy New Year :)